{"id":25871,"date":"2017-11-14T18:10:37","date_gmt":"2017-11-14T18:10:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/?p=25871"},"modified":"2017-11-14T20:12:35","modified_gmt":"2017-11-14T20:12:35","slug":"lifestyle-agoraphobia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/lifestyle-agoraphobia\/","title":{"rendered":"Lifestyle: agoraphobia"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>More lifestyle self-tutoring: the tutor shares some reflections about his new favourite phobia, and his own possible ensnarement therein.<\/h1>\n<p>To some degree, I assume, we all face anxiety. Some people truly don&#8217;t seem to, but perhaps that&#8217;s just poise. I freely admit that I do get anxious sometimes, for no reason at all.<\/p>\n<p>Agoraphobia I&#8217;ve heard of, but only today did I finally look up its meaning:<\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family:monospace;font-size:130%;color:#fffff0;background-color:#66aacc;white-space:pre-wrap\">\n<br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size:130%\">agoraphobia:<\/span> tendency to avoid particular settings for fear of trouble or embarrassment that may happen there. The trouble typically means social difficulty, such as being trapped in a line-up.<br \/>\n\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"white-space:pre-wrap\"><\/p>\n<p>Wow!<\/p>\n<p>I find it hard to imagine someone who doesn&#8217;t try to avoid situations of trouble or embarrassment.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve got a bad case of agoraphobia. My family particularly notice it; here are some of my symptoms:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>I typically avoid travelling because I don&#8217;t like long waits, line-ups, being stuck in a plane for 6-10hrs, etc.\n<li>I avoid parking in crowded lots, choosing instead to park further away where there&#8217;s more room. (This tendency my family really notice. My wife and younger son think it&#8217;s lame.)\n<\/li>\n<li>I try to avoid grocery shopping at peak times. (I went up one time during lunch break &#8211; I learned my lesson.)\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>In a given situation, agoraphobia can self-generate. Suppose, for instance, you go to a store at peak time. Naturally, you get trapped in a line-up. If you&#8217;re like me, now you feel embarrassed, standing there in line, because <em>I should have known better than to shop at that time.<\/em> If I&#8217;d been just a little more agoraphobic, I would have thought twice and planned the shopping better, so it happened outside a busy period.<\/p>\n<p>In a way, it&#8217;s embarrassing to talk about this, but it&#8217;s also liberating. I&#8217;m just glad it&#8217;s out in the open:)<\/p>\n<p>Source:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/agoraphobia\/symptoms-causes\/syc-20355987\">mayoclinic.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jack of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\">Oracle Tutoring by Jack and Diane,<\/a> Campbell River, BC.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>More lifestyle self-tutoring: the tutor shares some reflections about his new favourite phobia, and his own possible ensnarement therein. To some degree, I assume, we all face anxiety. Some people truly don&#8217;t seem to, but perhaps that&#8217;s just poise. I &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/lifestyle-agoraphobia\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Lifestyle: agoraphobia<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[181,1736],"tags":[2594,2595],"class_list":["post-25871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lifestyle","category-psychology","tag-my-struggle-with-agoraphobia","tag-what-is-agoraphobia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25871"}],"version-history":[{"count":79,"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25871\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25950,"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25871\/revisions\/25950"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oracletutoring.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}